Good news! The Virginia-Texas war is OVAH!
I called Kathy's dad tonight, and he and she talked about the whole ugly state of affairs between them in the past week or so. It's all been resolved, they're coming to the wedding, and they're paying for the pics and video. Kathy's step-grandmother still isn't coming (we think) because we found out she has agoraphobia. I want to assure her that no fuzzy sweaters will be around the wedding site, whatsoever. :)
So now we have 208 people on our invite list. Better make seconds.