"Sweet Jane", Cowboy Junkies
This song basically pushed me into taking this path. I had been interested in doing a "Song of the day/my favorite songs" blog for a while now, but I never really got the compulsion to do it. Then I was going through my CD collection and stumbled upon a copy of The Trinity Sessions by Cowboy Junkies. Suddenly I went through a time warp.
It was 1989, and I was a young, naive and thoroughly idealistic man. I had dreams of getting out of Aiken SC with the woman of my dreams and making something of myself. Trouble was, I had never really kissed a woman up to that point, let alone connected with the "woman of my dreams", and I had no earthly idea what I wanted to do for a living.
In between pining for the attention of a woman who ended up being a stripper and wondering if the plays I was doing at the local university might lead me somewhere, I discovered the Cowboy Junkies on MTV. Mind you this was 20 years BJS (Before Jersey Shore). Their video for "Sweet Jane" had gone into a regular rotation, and I turned up the volume whenever I saw it come up.
"Sweet Jane" was a cover of a Velvet Underground song, but it took the song on a different course. Where VU's version was edgy and a little bit cynical, Cowboy Junkies' effort was ethereal and full of longing. Margot Timmins' voice reached into my heart and held it tight, reassuring me that I would find a real love - someday.
Years later, when I did meet the woman of my dreams, I looked on the CD rack in her home, Sure enough, there on the rack was a copy of The Trinity Sessions. I knew I was home. I knew she was the one. I mean, there were plenty of other clues, but this was a clincher for me. :)
"Sweet Jane" reminds me of love lost, love unrealized and (most importantly) love finally found in a cruel and uncaring world. It feels like home and gentle words of welcome whispered sweetly in my ear, "I love you."
In any case, I am attaching a couple of videos of "Sweet Jane". The best copy of the original music video won't allow embedding, so I posted a link to it at the bottom of the page. In the meantime, enjoy a live performance of the song, recorded in Savannah GA in 2008.
Original music video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8W7VSS2ChY